10 commandments for students (Responsible Studenthood Part 1)

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Maybe you have heard about responsible parenthood. Though it is normally associated with family planning, responsible parenthood is all encompassing in terms of the responsibilities of parents. 

Responsible Studenthood is also all encompassing in terms of responsibilities of students. This includes managing responsibly their academic, physical, emotional, social, psychological, cultural and spiritual life. Many times we hear teachers reminding students to balance their academic life and social life. Students need to balance all the aspects of their life if they want to be successful. For example, a responsible student is one who performs well in his/her studies but at the same time maintains a good physical condition. How many students develop ulcer only because they are too lazy enough to cook, particularly those living in boarding houses? The school provides many opportunities to develop the students holistically. There are extra-curricular activities, clubs and organizations, and other opportunities which cater to other aspects of student’s life. 

If Stepheh Covey has 7 habits of highly effective people, here are the 10 commandments that college/university students must follow if they want to become successful.

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 1. Put God as the center of your life.  It is about loving God. There are many challenges in college life, no doubt about it. However, God is always present and will always be. Do not forget to always turn to Him. Praise God every moment of your life. A happy and successful life lies in the loving embrace of God. 

2. Do not use the name of God as your only shield. Do not be like those who trust in God for everything without doing anything. In whatever you do, push yourself to do better and always place yourself in the loving care and protection of God. 

3. Keep the Sabbath day holy. While you are in school from Monday to Friday, and sometimes Saturday and Sunday, always find time to join your faith community in celebrating the Sabbath or the Lord’s day.

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4. Remember the sacrifices and dreams of your parents. You are now in college and this is a rare opportunity because many of your contemporaries could not. Always put into your mind and heart that you are here because of the sacrifices of your parents. Make them as your inspiration and do not disappoint them. 

5. Do not kill yourself. It might sound very rude but this is exactly what some students do. Keep yourself healthy. Eat the right food. Sleep regularly (8 hours/day). Exercise regularly. Always have a happy and positive disposition. In short, take good care of your body. Do not allow your body to suffer because of non essential things (smoking, drinking, drugs, etc.). Stay fit and healthy.

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